Craigslist: The Place Where You Can Find Anything


I’ve had some adventures on Craigslist before. I’ve sold stuff, bought stuff, placed personal ads and even found my good friend Eve on there!

And now I am back for more.

I bought two tickets to an upcoming concert that I’ve been dying to go to for the past few years. The problem is that none of my friends share my more *ahem* masculine-music tastes, so I haven’t been able to find anyone to go with me.

Not to mention that everyone is strapped for cash these days, and the tickets ain’t cheap.

So I’ve posted them on CL, but not where you would think! I did a post on the Strictly Platonic section, in the hopes that I can meet someone cool to go with. I did this because no matter who I sell it to I’m going to have to sit next to them–so why not someone of my choosing?

I did this last year for a NIN concert and a girl came with me. It was ok but we didn’t really stay friends after the concert. But I’m ok with that. It’s better than being completely alone or with a complete stranger!

When I told my friends that is what I did, they thought it was a good idea but asked me why I didn’t open it up to guys, too? It never occurred to me that maybe I’d be able to meet a cute guy with similar music tastes!

So I opened it up to guys this time. I got some random crappy 1-line emails, some guys trying too hard, and an over-enthusiastic girl who is too young for me to go with. There were a few decent emails, though. Some people didn’t even want the ticket, they just wanted to be friends with me….?

So I took the plunge and wrote back to a cute guy who had a normal email, actually included a photo as requested, and actually lives in my neighbourhood! He was even sensible enough to ask to get a beer or coffee together before agreeing to sell him the ticket.

I just sent him the email, so I’m not sure if he’ll answer back, or if he wants to do it this way. But damn, he is cute! And employed! I figure I can see how things go and try to come out of my boy-fearing shell a little bit.

There is always the chance that he has a GF and really IS just looking for an extra ticket… but even if that is the case I will still have a cutie to go with, right? ๐Ÿ˜‰

And this way I have the upper hand in everything, which will hopefully give me some more confidence in dealing with this situation. I plan to pick the time and place to meet, and I hold the ticket so I really have all the power. A rare situation indeed!

Hopefully this all works out. Here’s the email from him if you’re interested:

“Hi, I randomly got on craigslist looking for an apartment and something drew me to the platonic section. Maybe I’ve had too much to drink?

I love [Band] and would love to go see them. I’ve seen them only once and it was the best concert of my life.

a little about me; Im 26, I work in a physio clinic as a kinesiologist, I’m laid back, down to earth, low maintenance kind of guy.
i live near [Ginger’s neighbourhood], if you want to meet for a coffee or beer before agreeing to sell me the ticket.

My number is below, feel free to call me or send me an email.
Cheers”

Also: Don’t bother trying to creep me on CL, I’ve taken the posting down already!

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8 responses to “Craigslist: The Place Where You Can Find Anything”

  1. Wow…what a great idea! None of my friends share my music tastes, so I might give this a try. Although I'm a bit scared at what the responses in NYC might be like.

  2. OMG! All my friends are up and married with kids, so now i'm looking at finding new friends to do things with..it's tough! Never thought about Craigslist*L*

    I have to say, he can spell! (that's a huge thing for me ๐Ÿ™‚ )
    Hope to hear updates on this!

  3. It's definitely worth a try, but take everything with a grain of salt!

    For every decent person there's about 20 crazies to contend with. Also, if you're female, expect to receive some penis photos. I don't know why guys think these impress us. It just grosses me out.

    Write a good profile and you'll get good responses, include a photo and you'll get even more!

    Spelling is super-important to me too! That's one of the reasons I chose this guy! He actually wrote me back so after I come home from camping we'll organize a meet & greet together. ๐Ÿ™‚

  4. I can't believe you're so impressed that I can spell and hold down a job. That's kind of sad… I am glad you think I'm cute.

  5. Hey that sounds awesome! I never would have thought to do that in the first place… hopefully it all works out! ๐Ÿ˜‰

  6. I have to admit – after I found my place on craigslist, and had just moved into it 2 years ago, I did end up browsing through the classified section, and then the personal ads.

    I responded to a guy who said he was lonely having just moved into an apartment and was adjusting to living alone, since I found myself in the exact same situation. We chatted by email, then MSN, then met up and went to the Ex … and now, we're dating and living together in a great apartment with a fabulous view of Toronto!

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